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LOL, well most of the time when things get too tough. I CALL MOMMY...LOL But, due to my hard past, that was usually brought on either myself, or for lack of better term, stupid men. I have become thicker skinned. I too have learned not the let anyone run over me, and tend to be a little extreme with the stubborness as my self protecting walls tend to bounce up and down. I am a giving, and flexable person, and some take that as a sign of weakness, and there are those times when they get to my breaking point, and they find out how stubborn I can be. It is ok to be "self"ish sometimes, it is ok to say NO, I need a break. Do not let others gotta get it done now, tick tick ticking clock run your life as well. While I will not mind doing something for a loved one in the time asked, even a rushed thing if needed, but I run in my own time, and if they do not like it, well, then they can do it themselves. A lot of times, I will ask the Great Mother for energy, if things are wearing on me, and I need the boost. Sometimes, I do not want the boost, I take my break, and wait for my second wind. With that being said. I find comfort in doing the things like said above, things I do not usually get to do. I draw, I play on the net, or work on a craft, usually because it is something I do not get to do often, I rarely get it finished..LOL However, happiness can only be found in one's self. It was a hard lesson I had to learn. I do find it a little easier to cope with these feelings, when it is communicated that I need me time, instead of barking at the loved ones around me, and then feeling guilty about it later, or creating a fight that only makes the problem worse. Or you get the questions "what did i do"... If they can not respect this, thats when the "self" ishness comes in. My beloved Torin, has come to realize this the hard way...lol But is getting better at reading these signs. All and all, you have to keep the happiness and balance. Stress will bring you down, Happiness creates the light. Your world is like a candle, the flame is your life. with every candle there must be a rise and fall in the light, a flicker, a bump,a great shine, a few dim moments. you have the power to make it spark, you have the power to cast shadows. Every now and then, a tear of wax must fall, only to support more world for you to burn. If someone wants to control your light, burn them. The flame, your life is what you make of it, it will scar, and it will comfort,but reguardless of how much light you shine, your life still burns.Your flame only goes out, when you leave this life, So, Burn On.
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Re: What to do when life gets out of control?


I first stop and consider why life is out of control - is it a good thing, a bad thing? I don't think loss of control is necessarily a bad thing. emoticon

Now if it is negative then I sit down and pinpoint what is negative and think of ways to get control back of it the situation.

I take it as a learn experience and go on. You will not always be perfect nor in perfect control but so long as it is positive and your still moving forward then go with it. If it is disruptive in a negative way then take the steps to gain what control you can, realize somethings are beyond your control and possibly start over or back track to the part where it is positve and go from there.

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